Hey there Bets....Let me get those sunglasses on since the sun is shinin' here and it is warm and 75! Well I finally caught up through your thread.

I wanted to comment on your MC and your plans. I have to say that I think it is a good decision. I agree w/you about the financial aspect of it and preparing yourself for whatever comes. Actually, the other day when we went to MC we were asked that question and as I noted, my H didn't have an answer. I am not ready to give an answer w/out his input since we are starting fresh here. I want to get some things out in the air first and see where it takes us from there. In some stroke of luck, my GF that recommended him told me that when she started they told him to prepare them for D and LOOK where they are now (happier and having ) so w/that it gives me something to shoot for but not expect.

Since you already have a R w/MC, it should be understandable for him to see where you are coming from.

I know that you will use cautionary judgement w/your words and you know how first-hand how your sit is going.

Since you and H are talking have you recommended any books or resources to him regarding MLC or is it too soon and that would appear pushy? He did mention it so maybe it is an opening worth pursuing..you would know best.

Take care and enjoy the weather. Tootles...............

Karen