I study a lot; thank you for sharing those great material.
Have to say that I'm not good at setting boundary; he moved out, we don't see each other, he is living by himself, I don't even have his address. But I do get scared when there's phone conversation and if he spewed ...
Last year, I forgot to log out of my email boxes, he logged in and checked my emails. I feel awful and uncomfortable of what he did to me, this man is not my husband, it is a monster came from nowhere !!!
I appreciate Job's explanation of depression; through his crisis, I learned the problem of husband's original family. His parents know what happened to him, they just act very cold and quite indifferently... pray for my husband that he could out off the tunnel by himself.
