So why am I saying to get FB? Well from first hand experience people are nosey and tattle tellers. LOL
When mine was deep into missing sow (skanky ow) he actually semi stalked her via FB.
Cut to now and him not even wanting to be with me and yet calling and leaving me voicemails because his family or friends see photos that my family and friends post up of our kids.
Latest was my friends BF was holding our daughter. She took a picture and posted it. I don't have FB so I did not even know. But sure enough he got a screen shot and questions from a family member. "Who is that man with your daughter? What's going on with you and Rain?"
Then blamo I get a text. Telling me he saw the pic. And that I know he doesn't like her being held by men.
Whatever he can kiss my ass right now BUT that showed me that anything about me and the kids that gets put up will eventually get back to him and that he cares enough to call me on it.
Before you ask...yes MB...once I actually GAL I will let my family and friends post those up every time I am looking stunning and going out and oops is that a mans arm in the picture??? LOL
Why? Because I'm a flipping classy Lady MB....that's why!
So maybe that can be a way to show your GALing and weight loss and to back up your words that you're moving on without having to go to him. And if and when he starts getting the MB updates ow will NOT be happy that he cares to know. And that it bothers him. I see that as a win-win.
Just saying.
At the very least it can't hurt. Remember DR. Try something new and monitor results.
