Of course you don't want to let him go. He's sending you mixed messages because he's mixed up! One thing MWD says is to try something, and if that doesn't work, try something else. Can you get a session with a DB coach? That's an hour with a pro helping you see what's best.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat