Wow MB, you're so brutally honest on your posts...I think it's wonderful. Stop beating yourself up. You and I are similar in timeline with the BD and would I have done differently? I don't know. But, if it comes to be mentioned, my reply would be to try to validate, even tho I su©k at it presently.Working on this.

I am sorry I can't offer any suggestions to you, but I'm sure you'll get some good feedback here.

Buttercup

Me 50 H 51
M 17 T 20
D16
H EA Feb 2014
BD Sept 2015
H moved out Nov 2015
W Filed D papers Mar 2016