REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!

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I really wish one of the vets would get on here and tell me what I need to do. I know they say NC, but I can only NC just so long. Eventually there has to be SOME contact otherwise it will just get easier every day for him not to see me ever again. And, I know that they say to not contact, to wait till they contact you. Well, he won't. It's just that simple. He will never contact me. He will sit over there and feel defeated and decide that I gave up and don't want him anymore, blah, blah, blah. I KNOW him and I know he won't contact me. This is not mind reading on my part, this is his history....he will not contact me if I stop reaching out to him. So, now what? There has to be something other than eternal NC that I can do. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME figure this out!