First of all, I think you need a new IC. Second, the fact that you hypnotize him sounds like there is still a big attraction on his part. And third, don't be so down on yourself. We all make mistakes. This might be one. Or it might introduce doubt in his head about the trashy ow. (tow) Go dark again. Remember, just over a month ago he missed you and wanted to be with you. He dumped tow, but not fully. Then he dumped you again but not fully. He's confused, just like you are. Give it time. Patience, my friend. Now get some rest!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat