UD, I'm trying to swim too!!! I had an appt. w/my psychiatrist last night and as a general rule, I don't go to any appt's w/o something to read, so I printed the pages where I had left off with you!!
I'm thinking about you. The $ sit. really helped me to not be upset about our $ sit. and be able to look at it differently. I guess I thought that EVERYONE would think, "you're married-you SHOULD share a bank account." Or, as my MIL said, "that's not a marriage," as she spends WAY more than they earn & he doesn't even know how much debt they have!! hmm...