No I don't think he is. He is a corrections officer so he works overnights, spends his days off at home or his parents (where he stays) and sleeps all day. Before the separation our typical day was.. Leaves for work at 6:30 pm comes home by 9:30 am sleeps from 9:30 until 5:39-6 wakes up, gets on uniform,spends a few minutes with us then out the door. His parents tell me he's always there and doesnt do anything but hangout in him room.When he does go out he usually 80% tells me Im going to x and z even if I don't ask. If there was a physical affair id be VERY surprised where he found time. Emotional..I really don't think so but I'm not 100% since how can I bre with him gone. Half his co workers don't even know we are separated only a few and a few family members.