^^^ He's gotta miss all that when he gets out of the fog, right? I'm more and more impressed with you, Rain.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
^^^ He's gotta miss all that when he gets out of the fog, right? I'm more and more impressed with you, Rain.
Awww (blush) gee thanks NYGal. That made me smile
Side note, Mr. Crazy told me basically thanks but no thanks to my Voicemail from last night. Then an hour later proceeded to send me 4 songs and a hope you and our kids have a good night text. He has gotten zero from me. He is addicted and spending money faster than he can make it. His blood will boil when his boss tells him about the child support papers coming in.
Oh well, at some point in life he must learn as do we all that our choices have consequences. I can not count on him financially. Period. The only way I will get my child support consistently is if they take it before he is able to throw it all away.
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15
Sadly, there is just nothing you can do to help someone who is an addict until they hit bottom, lose everything they care about, and make the decision for *themselves* that they have to change.
It's ridiculous that he has a beautiful family waiting to love him and work towards a healthy relationship and he chooses cam girls.
Sadly, there is just nothing you can do to help someone who is an addict until they hit bottom, lose everything they care about, and make the decision for *themselves* that they have to change.
It's ridiculous that he has a beautiful family waiting to love him and work towards a healthy relationship and he chooses cam girls.
Maybe we should be hauling out the 2x4's for HIM?
Please DO! I'll post his address lol. Just kidding moderators. (sorta)
And sometimes I feel as if he used to cam girls to replace ow and it got out of hand. They ended their EA rather abruptly and he has to miss her or whatever feeling she was giving him right? But I am no doctor so who knows.
And yes it is crazy. We have our beautiful, funny, smart kids and he has a woman that has loved him through so much and stood by his side. And yet. Today I get a no thanks. Move on please. I want a partner not a mother.
Rain (moi): 40 Ex Fiance: 39 3 kids On/off again EA & PA Last BD by ow 12/15 Moved kids and myself back into our own place: 12/15
Let's post all the relevant addresses and have a field day. Just kidding, moderators.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
MB, you said you're proud of me but I am a mess. LOL I had the worst dream and woke up feeling beaten down. He contacted me this morning as I put in my reply to NYGal.
Hope you were GALing it up again
I said I was proud of you, I did't say HE was proud of you. LOL. There is a difference. You stood up for yourself and told him exactly what you were going to need so he is clear about it now. Of course he isn't going to like it. He didn't want to have to do any work to get you back. You were just supposed to BE there.
Nope, haven't done anything to GAL in almost a week. Just haven't felt like it. I have done something that is completely stupid and retarded, but not anything to do with GAL or having fun in any way. UGH!
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
He is going to be homeless soon giving away all of his money like that. But he's a big boy.
........and you will NOT take him in, right?
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
