Sadly, there is just nothing you can do to help someone who is an addict until they hit bottom, lose everything they care about, and make the decision for *themselves* that they have to change.

It's ridiculous that he has a beautiful family waiting to love him and work towards a healthy relationship and he chooses cam girls.

Maybe we should be hauling out the 2x4's for HIM? wink


Me: 43, Him: 40
Married: 21 years