I think you need boundaries with W, that she asks and doesn't volunteer you.
Imagine if you couldn't car pool, for example you are at meeting or important conference, then the implication might be dad won't do this, rather than dad can't.
Have you an online calender, I believe HeavyD made that work very well. It took the 'sting' and subjectivity from appointments etc.
I can't remember who originally suggested it, Mozza I think.
Perhaps Sunny, but I can't find the resource, so if there is a parent out there who knows perhaps they could point in the right direction.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
