Totally I get it and actually I'm not just doing it all for him, I'm doing it for me too, I really am getting myself happy and doing things for me now. I took myself off To London for a few days, got my hair cut etc all these things actually are making me feel happy with myself! I feel like I have lost touch with who I am in this marriage and it's quite nice rediscovering me, I became less confident and very dependent on him for my own happiness especially in this last year as we moved to an area where we had no friends and I was at home with the kids, I was lonely and miserable, I actually don't feel like that any more which is good!
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1
