It's a nice, sunny day here in ---- and I'm enjoying that! I had lunch with a student I sort of mentor, and that was fun. I'm doing a pretty good job of GAL in that I often have plans most nights -- if only because I hate to be alone.

The basketball game saga continues. I have been going to women's basketball since 1994, long before I met W. She always goes too. We always went together. Now she still goes and I don't want to give up an event I've always enjoyed. The dilemma is that I don't want to go alone without support. I could sit with our mutual friends, but W sits there, so ... I found a cute girl to come with me to the game Friday night! It may sound shallow, I know... but she's statuesque model beautiful, and it can't hurt to walk in with her, right? She's a work colleague and recently broke up with her boyfriend, so we're both in the lonely hearts club.

No W sightings today. But the day is young. Dinner with a friend tonight who, I'm sure, is so curious about why I haven't been sitting with W at the games... I seriously do NOT like this kind of drama. I want my old, simple life back. But I'm learning you don't always get what you want.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat