Just found out that W is having S4 referred for occupational therapy. Pediatrician called me by mistake. I really would like to be kept in the loop about these things.
Recently she took S11 to psychologist without telling me. I would like, and have the right, to know about these things. I told my W this, as politely as I could muster. Not only did I tell W about S11 detician's appointment, I invited her because it is information that she needs. I am starting to get annoyed (or paranoid- take your pick) that my STBXW is excluding me from caregiving decisions.
Also, W is taking kids for the weekend to another city to visit friends. I cannot go because I am on call. I don't know if I would have gone anyway - I do not want to travel with her and pretend that everything is normal - basically, cover for her - anymore. It is the first time she is doing this.
