Still learning AU Bob

[AU Bob]

Hi Zues126
I am not sure what the relationship is with this OM I have still not been able to find out the depth of it.
She seemed to have an infatuation with him, the contents of the texts she sent him that we had been able to see say to us that she was very friendly, mutual flattering, kisses,and from him telling her how beautiful she was, not sexual but inappropriate for a married person, my children that saw them told her they were not appropriate, and they were the one we were able to see. She hid a lot of it and deleted a lot so what was in them who knows.
She has gone out to clubs and social gatherings and he has gone too, but other people have been with them, although my family know none of these people, so we cant find out what went on.
She has gone to his house numerous times for partys and so called training sessions (he is a gym instructor at her gym)
there are some stairs going between two streets they run up.
She turned up at my daughters place with him two weeks ago to get some kyacks I asked her about it last week and she said he was just helping her to get them and that it was a group training session.
She is training for a challenge course so that's her explanation for spending time with him.
His son is dating her sisters daughter. He has gone to her house a few times but my wife has been the one who drove him.
My children suspect there is something going on but we have no proof other than what I have jus told you.
So we suspect, but have no real proof.