Cil, I know this will sound strange, but I hope you are doing what you need to like, if the tears come let them, if the anger comes let that come too, let it all wash over you. This is sad and hurtful and feeling the loss, the grief and confusion is part of the process. Not only the process of letting your old M go, but part of the process of becoming YOU. The YOU that may enter into a new M with H or who knows what life might have in store.
For now try and be in the present moment to the business that needs to be done. And as some lovely women I know said to me recently the answer to all life's hiccups is chocolate, wine and a good cry.
Wish I was there to provide a good NZ pinot gris!
Hang in there girlfriend, we will see you through.
(((((Cil))))) Big hugs
Jellyxxx
Last edited by Cadet; 01/28/1604:22 AM. Reason: start a new thread message
Thank you all for the support. I love pinot gris, JB. I am having a hard time functioning. Had to take a day off work again. I can't believe this is hitting me so hard.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
Please start a new thread, if you haven't already done so.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
