Well in all honesty the sexual attraction has definitely dwindled and my sex drive was pretty much gone but I do find him attractive and when I think about him now I do fancy him. I'm one of those people that if I'm not having second I'm not bothered about it but when we have phases of having sex I want to sleep with him more.. It definitely had become an issue for us but I don't think it's unfixable, it was something to work on, our problem was communication about it, we needed to talk! I feel bad that I just have made him feel rejected, I get that- but he made me feel rejected at times too at times..
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1