I think it helped me move forward with things after I was able to forgive her betrayal / deceit.
Without reading back through your threads, why are you so quick to forgive this? For me, I understand why XW did what she did, but I certainly dont forgive it. Im capable of having a good co-parenting relationship, but Im certainly not at a point where the lies, the cheating, the deceit....where all of that is just wiped clean.
Maybe thats just me.
On some level, do you think you are forgiving her in your mind just so that you avoid thinking about all of that stuff?
