Hello TimR,

I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.

I agree with the others here that you should not print and give her the divorce papers she asked you to draft unless you want to get divorced. Why would you make the divorce process easier for her? Are you paying for her apartment? If so, she isn't facing any of the consequences of wanting space or doing any of the dirty work of filing for divorce. If she wants space and a divorce, she needs to deal with all the details and expense.

Do you have any parental or custody rights with your step sons? Have you adopted them? If you are the only father they have known, how does that play out for you with custody?

A sex starved marriage is a very lonely place to be for both people. You made a casual mention about porn and I'm wondering if there is more to that piece of the puzzle.

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Cristy
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