Cristy, you mentioned I had seen changes in her behavior and to be cautious, which I am. Can I ask you what you mean by those changes I see? As I have read we ignore pretty much all she says and 50% of what she does. Are the things I see just someone being civil or is there the potential for her to still be conflicted within herself. I know patience is the key and I'm not going to push her or ask her about anything.
Hello Si_07,
I'm glad your DR book has arrived and you are reading it. Please pay attention to Cadet's message regarding not sharing it with your wife. These are your tools right now.
You are exactly right to not believe any of what she says and only 1/2 of what she does. Her changes could be that she is having inner conflict, temperature checking you, cake eating, or any number of things. Don't get sucked into mind reading on this.
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