My OTHER question is, he ALWAYS hugs me before he leaves the house. Should I stop that?
The last time I saw him, didn't get up to hug him, I sat in my chair and said bye. He went, unlocked the door, turned around marched back to my chair and was like common give me my hug. It confuses me.
We also talk everyday, either he texts me or calls me about the kids OR something random. One day he called to tell me he wanted to replace his windshield and it was a completely RANDOM..phone call.
For example:Last night he called to ask about the kids, mentioned some stuff the happened about work, told me he couldn't sleep and didn't feel well. I tried to be nice and use validation. Not sure if I did a good job. He didn't ask anything about me just told me about himself and what's going on with him, kinda like an update? I don't know. He didn't want to talk to the kids, he said he would call them later and he did. I just don't know if I SHOULD or SHOULD NOT be having these calls. Sometimes he calls from work to tell me something he could tell me in a text or person, like I might work overtime next Wednesday but I'm not sure yet until Sunday type thing.
