I'm not really sure where to post. I wish there was some type of a combo, because I fit into several different categories.I used to post here regularly, I had a wonderful support group and learned a lot, mainly about saving myself more than the marriage.
I survived the MLC, I've survived the piecing, and now, I think I may be a borderline walk away wife.
Divorce-busting was a Godsend to me. It made a huge difference in my own life. Unfortunately, the big lesson here is that you can't change someone else. You can bang your head against a wall and scream until you're blue in the face, but it won't make anything change if the other person refuses to see themselves as they truly are. That's the great thing about this place, you work on yourself. You make great changes. You learn how to breathe again, and most of all, you take off the rose colored glasses and see things as they truly are.
So now, I'm wavering between giving it one last try or finally having the fortitude to say," I've done my best, let's move on."
