I've found that while words are wonderful, Husband at one point told me that if he moved back in with me, we would make this work, no matter what.
But the reality was that as time went by...as I showed him tha he was safe with me. That our house was a happy home...his committment became stronger and stronger.
He said something recently that let me know that if he's not 100% he's pretty darn close.
He said, "No, we can't buy that...we have a house to save up for."
So...what I'm trying to say, is the committment will grow..don't expect to get 100% before you move in and he sees that he can be safe with you.
