You have done what you can. You outlined what you need and gave him a path home. It's up to him to actually walk it though.

3-6 months sounds like a long time right now, but if you get your R back on track and spend the rest of your lives together, that time will seem like nothing.

I cannot believe he spent the money you gave him on cam girls again!!

When are you headed out of town to see XF's mother?


Me: 43, Him: 40
Married: 21 years