This post is amazing everybody, you don't know how much i is helping me. Zues mentioned in one comment that the advice / tips are not only for OP, but for everyone reading. I can assure you that I am one reading and this is tremendously helpful. It is so comforting to me that there are many of us in same sitch and things are really moving forward with them. It certainly gives me a lot of hope and I think I'm getting closer everyday. Keep the comments coming, Im loving it! Another note, my divorce care group mentioned boundaries and I saw Zues mention it here - where can I learn more about setting healthy boundaries?
M 43 W 45 M 10.5 T 15 S 26 D 17 (previous relationships) ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D Confirm affair 1/10/16 W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)
