I have been a part of that type of passion for someone in the past (my wife for one) and understand how strong the desire is. It is something that cannot be stopped, and will continue to progress with or without my blessing. I do not want my wife to have feelings of shame or guilt, and I do not want her to have to hide her affair / feelings from me. That may sound a lot like a doormat to many, but I do want my wife to follow her heart and I do want her to be happy. Maybe this other man IS the one who will make her happy. If so, I want her happiness. That is not to say that I do not want to save my marriage, but I do want her to pursue her heart without remorse or guilt. Does that make any sense?
also part about my support for her last 10y and NOW she is getting a job and starting to contribute financially (not yet, but soon). I am so mad about that. Not telling her in face, but yes, I have been her financial support and now she is leaving and taking also half of what I have contributed to marriage.
Read my story, but we are so similar, except mine W has not moved out and I dont even know if she ever will, but she is definitely ILYBNILWY.
I have also accepted that there is 0% chance for now for her to change her mind, lost weight, started GAL.
Everything went so fast with you, I guess that would be my case if not for child.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room
