I hear you Trumpet - I just don't know how to *do* it ...much. I'm not interested in going out every night or other such things - that seems more like a game than anything. Avoiding him compounds it. I do focus on growing more in the faith. I was reading some things in the bible 2 nights ago and he accused me of just reading to cherry-pick things to support my ego and seeking other teachers other than himself. Didn't respond to it.
Of course I want to be happy but more than that I want to do the right thing, be compassionate, open, loving. In most situations, those things are not mutually incompatible!! (yeah, Wargames is a great movie) SO, how do I *NOT* play?? And still remain here/not divorced?
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
