Good point Vanilla. Those were his words, so I didn't feel like it was putting words in his mouth...but today is a new day & maybe that IS putting words in his mouth.
I didn't say it - just painted my nails (cuz I never do that) and played around with some artwork I started recently - both GAL ideas. Sat there for a bit, per his usual, expecting me to "talk". Didn't. He turned on a movie and we watched it. Went to bed and then he said his usual spiel about me not making any effort, yadda yadda. I said what do you want to talk about. No answer. Today, usual texts from him that I should have apologized and make some kind of effort. So I asked for clarification about what I should be apologizing about - again he responds "Wow. no effort". I couldnt' help myself & I replied, "no games" to which he replied "yes you are". I'm not going to reply. Shouldn't have thrown that games thing in there. Just sick of it.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
