thansk G8r hope your sitch gets better..mine is not
Q for anyone going thru separation or D with Daughters?
It feels strange right now as my STBX is making spending time and doing things with her a bit as a contest...it feels strange.
I am so worried about a daughter wanting to spend more time with her mom which is natural. She is also daddy's girl (in my mind...) but I am losing sleep over things i can't control.
Any advice ???
It's about recognizing what you can control. It makes me happy when my daughter says she does stuff with mommy, because I want her to have a good relationship with both parents.
Of course it will feel like a contest for now, but just focus on being the best parent you can be.
And remember, it's early days. Things wont stay in this state of chaos forever.
