I came her for support / advice / opinions. I also came here because I read the book and it gave me hope. I am focusing on self, and have hope for a bright future. I still have not given up hope of reconciliation with my wife and believe she is blinded by her emotions at this time. I won't give up on her smile

M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)