Thanks Sotto
I guess we do have occasional contact about children, but there is nothing further. Nothing between the two of us or about each others lives.

I know we both get some information from being heard when talking to the kids or when kids tell us stuff.

I am also aware of the NC for me. For a while it helped me tremendously. I am hoping i get to another point of the help. Maybe it is just as i am coming up on the one month marker the reality of it set back in.

I think i have made the decision to replace some pics in the house of her and I. I will keep some but there can not be any good from all still being here. I need to make the house more about just me and the kids.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15