This is the primary reason why I am staying in my home. I could never do this to my kids. This is not about your husband missing a dinner, that happens to everyone. Your son is upset because his world is changing. Your husband missing dinner reminds your son the his father will will not be in his life, not like before. The foundation of his life has changed for the worse. Your son is paying the price for your husbands choice.
I'm sorry if it seems I'm rubbing your nose in it. My heart goes out to your little guy. He must look up to his dad and feel bad, like his father has rejected him and you, that's a real gut punch. A four year old boy needs his father, I'm so sorry Elly.
