I have cut off all contact with him apart from the kids but the last time he picked up / dropped off the kids it's felt like he is now doing the same 😩 Up until then he was still starting conversations with me or asking how I am etc but he hasn't even done that now- I feel like he's just doing what I'm doing which really upsets me! Is that normal or a bad sign?

I always make sure I look good, confident, am friendly but not chatty and he always looks non smily and a bit down and stressed!


Me 35 H 38
Married 4 years together 13 years
Affair started sept 2015
BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night
son age 3 daughter age 1