To be honest apart from that we were / are a brilliant couple we were partners and best friends, told each other everything, we were recently up until a year ago also business partners and worked together very day and never really annoyed each other. Nobody can believe this has happened and we were so happy!

He is also a brilliant dad and has dedicated all his days off to having his kids, he is a chef and works crazy hours so the only really time I can see that he's even got to see this girl is from about 11pm to 8am! (I saw from his emails before He found somewhere to live that they were literally checking in to cheap hotels at about midnight and checking out again early in the morning and they don't have any more time now than they did then!

Anyway I am letting go, getting on with my life, house hunting for a new place for me and the kids and having fun with my friends 😀To be honest in retrospect I feel happier now than when he was having an affair behind my back - that was bad, he was so horrible to me and non supportive, I felt so isolated and alone at that point


Me 35 H 38
Married 4 years together 13 years
Affair started sept 2015
BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night
son age 3 daughter age 1