Waw, she is in love, need advice/support

[Bear007]

And... it is delayed... she will not file for divorce until she gets job. So this is pat position, I doubt she will ever find job, not that she can't, but problem is in her selection of jobs - she wants specific type of job, and frankly you have to be very good and known to get that kind of job.

As I knew always I am married to immature adult who dreams of something but is not capable of fulfilling anything without help from husband/parents...

She also wanted a hug... she hugged me, bu I didn't hug back. After that she said will I hate her forever. I calmly explained that I still love her and don't hate, but she decided to move on, and I can only respect that decision.

@sandi2: based on rules - I should let her be on the couch as long as she wants?
My lawyer said that I should give her money for rent (if she can't afford it), just so she can be separated and that I can get with my life asap.