Doing better....Oh wait

[Pax_luv]

Hi otw- I hope your lesson went well! Dancing is a great skill to have!

I'd be interested in hearing what the vets say about the NC and the same reciprocity from the spouse. I think that all of our initial intentions are to go NC in hopes that it would draw the spouse nearer (at least that was my intention). However, I'm finding it doesn't always work that way. I went pretty dim with my h for 7 months and we just had our first r talk (specifically about divorce) and he made the comment that I seemed like I needed my space to figure this out so he was completely leaving me alone this whole time. We can't control our spouses... We can only take our sitch's as they are and move forward.

Hope you have a great rest of the day!