What's more, I keep thinking that when the inevitable comes tonight I'll take the bull by the horns and say: We both feel like we've done everything that we can possibly do. We both hurt. We both don't like this and we both feel stuck. (since I've broached this before he will react by not liking that I'm speaking for him and therefore controlling the convo) And, Now what? (when I've asked this before, he's said "demolition" but never said what that means). He also accused me of seeking after other teachers for spiritual advice (true enough). Thinking about what Trumpet said, that he is sick and a sick doctor cannot care for his patients...should I respond?? When I ignore such things he comes after me all the more.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
