http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2647238&page=1 Well, I'm still mulling all of this. Still not sure what to do or even completely how I feel. Looking forward to Friday when I can talk w/the DB coach again. Thinking about HIS advice: my H *thinks* its hopeless and that he knows me completely. That's got me thinking of all kinds of ways to throw him off, but most would come across as being spiteful or fake. UGH. I need more ideas, esp. since he's so intimately familiar with this type of stuff & smells it straight away. On the other hand, my IC asked me to do that pro/con list of both staying and divorcing. That's got my head spinning about divorce impacts.... I don't like it but thinking about it makes me...think about it.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
