Try not to read anything into her niceness. And, if I had to guess which option to check; #1) she's trying to wean herself from the A, or #2) she may have been dumped.....I would pick #2. But who knows? It may not be anything but a nice mood.
Some WW's will definitely be depressed when the A ends. Her ego is shot down, so the exercise and tanning falls by the wayside. She stops watching what she eats so closely and endulges in some sweet treats late at night ......(well, you get the general idea). So, if you see her acting all sad and depressed, it's good news. Starsky use to say if a WW was acting all excited and happy, it was bad news for the LBH, b/c it meant the A was going strong. But, if she seemed angry, depressed, in a bad mood, etc., it was good news b/c it meant things weren't too lovely in fantasy land. Having experienced those identical feelings myself, I'd say he was spot on!
My advice about saying something to her about going to the gym is to just keep hushed for a while.
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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
