Bex- I honestly don't think the affair will last. Just keep working on yourself. I know its really hard with young kids, mine are young also. I'm trying to do things that make me happy so that easy if my husband never comes back..well hey I'll still be happy..or at least trying to be.
Rednail it is so hard with young kids isn't it?! The only thing I'm grateful for in this is that they are so young they don't really get what's going on- we've told them that daddy has to work away and they accept it.
I am totally trying to get my life back together, I'm trying to keep busy but it's difficult to have time to do nice things for me with 2 pre school age children! Anyway they keep me busy and are the sole reason why I haven't fallen to pieces to be honest, they are keeping me sane!
How long has your husband been gone for?
You know my head tells me the affair won't last but my heart is terrified that it will! If I was an outsider in this is bet money on it not working out but it's so hard when it's you isn't it to not be scared that this might be one of those very few affairs that turn into actual relationships..
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1
