Keep doing what works for you. I've been following your sitch for hope and inspiration. Hope things continue going in the direction you want them to go.
I'm curious. Would your response to your W's petition for divorce included adultery? I'm expecting papers soon and I don't know how I want to respond. It might make me feel better for a bit and help get me,more than every other,weekend for custody but I don't think it will allow potential for R later after we both have had time to get rid of anger and hostility towards each other.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016