Thank you both so much, I really need support today. My H doesn't even seem happy, that hurts too, he's no happier yet still doesn't want to work on a R.
Reading other situations seems to help and not help all at the same time really. It helps to know I'm not alone and to see similarities between my situation and other situations but at the same time I find it fills me with despair. I don't see any recent success stories (and by success stories I mean R with the WAS). The whole thing just seems so hopeless. My S said today that he doesn't think Dad is ever coming back now. That broke my heart too. Also I've been looking at banking figures and the bills that H wants paying off before he'll go to a solicitor will be paid off on Friday. In one way that fills me with dread that he might go to a solicitor once he knows they are paid off, and in another way the thought of that fills me almost with a kind of relief that at least I'll know, and won't keep torturing myself with the hope that he will come home.
