The longer you can wait to print the papers, the better TimR. As Cadet always says, we have been given the gift of Time. Use it wisely.

Is she in an affair?
Did you have any info on background that could help us?

My W and I might be reconciling this week - I was served on Friday. I would rather see people not have to pay for court filing fees/retainers when they don't have to. You being an attorney makes it really easy for her to ask for a D. Maybe if she wants the D she files?

Either way, have you really neglected your wife? No intimacy? Work taken over? Family/work/life balance way off? We are always half the equation. Are you cleaning up your side of the street? You can't fix her, her street is hers to fix.

Just throwing these things out there. Keep posting - journaling here has been really good for me. The posters, many of them vets here, are unbelievably good.

M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)