Originally Posted By: NYGal
Hi Bex, I'm in a similar situation of wondering when my W's affair will end. NO ONE believes it will last. There are so many factors working against it. But we just have to be patient. Easier said than done, I know. Believe me, I know.
When the A ends, or even sooner, your H has to work on HIM. Then he can work on the M. He has to figure out why he makes the mistake of leaving you. Twice now? That's insane. The affair fog is a powerful soup. Hopefully a strong wind will blow it away soon. Just keep posting and try your best to GAL. It's all we can do, really.
All the best to you.


NY gal

How long since your wife left you? How are you coping? The AP are they younger / older? Sorry for all the pain your going through, I feel it- my heart actually aches 😭😭😭


Me 35 H 38
Married 4 years together 13 years
Affair started sept 2015
BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night
son age 3 daughter age 1