Hi Bex, I'm in a similar situation of wondering when my W's affair will end. NO ONE believes it will last. There are so many factors working against it. But we just have to be patient. Easier said than done, I know. Believe me, I know.
When the A ends, or even sooner, your H has to work on HIM. Then he can work on the M. He has to figure out why he makes the mistake of leaving you. Twice now? That's insane. The affair fog is a powerful soup. Hopefully a strong wind will blow it away soon. Just keep posting and try your best to GAL. It's all we can do, really.
All the best to you.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat