I hope the move goes well for you, Gmum. What a relief that he's out of the country. Nothing you have to worry about doing or not doing for now, just focus on the move.
MB, remember that the fact that she's 5 hours away makes her more attractive. They don't have to deal with whose turn it is to take out the trash. Just keep on with your life. Be mysterious. I remember you saying how he asked you who the cars belonged to, and since it's an apartment complex you had no idea! He's thinking about you, I guarantee it. Focus on your own power: your history with him, your love for each other, the fact that it worked for as long as it did. And don't focus on the low life he's taken up with for now. It WON'T last. She's nothing. Just a momentary distraction. Try to be patient. I know how hard it is, but it's all we've got.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
