Thank you OTW, I have no preconceived notion that a true separation will trigger feelings of loneliness or that she will miss me and want to come back in short order. I dread the idea of her moving out for the same reasons you stated.

I am giving her space, respecting her privacy and considering any R discussions as taboo unless initiated by her. I enjoy her presence and seeing her first thing in the morning and last thing at night strengthens my resolve and helps keep my DBing plan in focus.

My DBing wil continue as is no matter what road blocks or detours lie ahead. I will continue to post and look for guidance from DB.com


Don't count the days, make the days count.
Mohammad Ali