I wanted to chime in on how the in house doesnt work. I agree, but i want ot warn that if the thoughts of ok, we live separately now we can start seeing if things can work out, then hang on.

I felt the same way, I said it has got to get worse before it gets better. I meant to myself we will have to live apart before we can see if we miss each other. The thing I did not realize is that the moving apart wasnt the "worse". In my case it green lighted a lot of things she want able to do while we lived together. I have come to realize she was no where near the edge of her fog. I think it was just the beginning.

please keep these thoughts in mind.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15