I wanted to chime in on how the in house doesnt work. I agree, but i want ot warn that if the thoughts of ok, we live separately now we can start seeing if things can work out, then hang on.
I felt the same way, I said it has got to get worse before it gets better. I meant to myself we will have to live apart before we can see if we miss each other. The thing I did not realize is that the moving apart wasnt the "worse". In my case it green lighted a lot of things she want able to do while we lived together. I have come to realize she was no where near the edge of her fog. I think it was just the beginning.
please keep these thoughts in mind.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15