Thank you Sandi2. Your words of encouragement have brightened my day even more. Although I am sick at home with pneumonia, I actually feel like your response has added a huge jolt of confidence to my mindset.
I read a response you had to another thread about how in your opinion an in house separation does not work. I totally agree. At first I considered our sitch as an in house separation. In reality we are cohabitating. My focus is on a secure homelife for my boys, my pursuit of happiness in myself, my actions and my decision making.
As long as we share the same roof and bedroom, we can never be separated. If and when she decides to pack up and leave, I will continue to live my life, be the father my boys deserve and better myself both outside and in. I would be such a mess had I not discovered DBing.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
